導(dǎo)讀:如果你不得不在兩個妹子之間作出選擇，你會選擇身材好還是顏值高的？本文作者由這一問題出發(fā)，討論了對于女性來說什么才是真正的美。

"If you had to choose, would you prefer a woman with a hot body or a beautiful face?"

“如果你不得不在兩個妹子之間作出選擇，你會選擇身材好的還是顏值高的？”

It’s a classic question that every woman wants to ask their boyfriend. Of course, he would prefer both. However, only a small number of women are blessed with Victoria’s Secret model genes.

這是一個老生常談的問題，每個妹子都想這樣問她們的男友。當(dāng)然咯，他肯定喜歡兩者兼具！但是，只有很少一部分女性能夠像維秘模特一樣具有天使面孔魔鬼身材。

My friend Richard recently broke up with his girlfriend, Karen. They had been seeing each other for three months but didn’t live together. One day, they went for a massage together. Richard changed and was ready for the massage, but couldn’t find Karen. He looked everywhere, not realizing that she was sitting on a sofa quite close to where he stood.

我的朋友理查德最近和他女友卡倫分手了。他們已經(jīng)交往了3個月，但是卻并沒有同居。有一天他們一起去做按摩。理查德?lián)Q好了衣服準(zhǔn)備按摩，但是他卻找不到卡倫。他到處都找遍了，卻沒有意識到卡倫就坐在他附近的一個沙發(fā)上。

Karen spotted him and called him over. There was a 30-second pause from Richard’s side when he went; he had never seen her without makeup. He tried to act normal, but his face said it all.

卡倫發(fā)現(xiàn)了理查德，叫他過來。理查德走過去之后懵逼了30秒——他從未見過卡倫不化妝的樣子！盡管他試著表現(xiàn)正常，但是他的臉色已經(jīng)說明了一切。

He told us later that Karen always wore thick fake eyelashes and colored contacts to make her eyes look bigger and more attractive. But when the magic was removed, her eyes looked dull and small. He also complained that her body was not toned enough and tried to explain that he didn’t break up with her because he saw her real face.

后來他對我們說，卡倫總是戴著厚厚的假睫毛和美瞳，從而讓自己的眼睛看起來更大更吸引人。但是卸妝之后，她的眼睛其實非常小、呆滯無神。他還抱怨卡倫的身材不夠好，并且試圖解釋自己并不是因為卡倫的顏值抱歉才和她分手的。

I once read an article that said, nowadays, some women wouldn’t let their boyfriends see their real face. They wear concealer even when they go to bed and get up earlier so that they have enough time to put on some makeup before he wakes up. Looking perfect means a lot to them. They are easily affected by the current standards set on beauty. They go to extremes in search of a unified and recognized image of beauty, and once they find it, they work hard to get and maintain it.

我曾經(jīng)看過一篇文章，說現(xiàn)今一些女性不會讓他們的男友看到自己的素顏。甚至晚上睡覺時她們也會抹上遮瑕膏，早上很早起床以便于在男友起床之前有時間補妝。使自己看起來完美對她們來說很重要！她們很容易受到來自目前美麗的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)的影響。她們在尋找統(tǒng)一和公認(rèn)的美麗面孔上走上了極端，而一旦她們找到了，就會努力得到并維持住這份美麗。

Part of the reason they behave this way is people like Richard either consciously or subconsciously impose stereotyped ideas about beauty on them. The other part of the reason is they are not confident enough about themselves and easily surrender to the whims and fancies of men.

她們之所以會這樣做，部分原因是因為向理查德這一類的人，不管是有意還是無意，會將美麗的刻板印象強加在她們身上。而另一部分的原因則是女性對自己不夠自信，很容易就屈服于男人的沖動和幻想。

So, instead of asking men to answer this question, women should bear in mind that the scope of beauty is getting broader and broader. Only when they really appreciate their own beauty, will they become more confident.

因此，女人們不應(yīng)該叫男人回答這個問題，而是要在心里面記住美麗的范圍正變得越來越廣。只有當(dāng)女人真正懂得欣賞自己的美麗之后，她們才會變得更加自信。

"I feel free, once I realized I was never going to fit the narrow mold that society wanted me to fit in," reads a quote from Ashley Graham, the first plus-size model to appear on the cover of Vogue.

時尚雜志《VOGUE》第一個“加大號”封面女郎阿什利.格雷厄姆有一句名言“一旦我意識到不會委屈自己縮進這個社會想讓我適應(yīng)的狹窄模具時，我感覺到了自由”。

We don’t want to see similar beautiful faces on the street, looking like products from the same assembly line.

我們并不想在街上看到千篇一律的面龐，雖然看起來很美，但是卻如同流水線生產(chǎn)出來的產(chǎn)品一般毫無特點。

Don’t label yourself a certain kind of woman. Be the woman that gets to decide who you are and how you should look. Being different is beautiful; being confident is beautiful; being real is beautiful.

不要給自己貼上是某種女人的標(biāo)簽。你應(yīng)該成為那種自己決定自己是誰、自己決定自己是什么樣子的女人。與眾不同就是美、充滿自信就是美、真實不虛就是美！

There is no reason to hide your real appearance. Love yourself and be proud of who you really are.

沒有理由隱藏起你真實的外表。愛你自己、并為真實的你而驕傲吧！

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