健康問題是大多數(shù)塔羅師從客戶，朋友甚至自己身上獲得的三大問題之一。但為了獲得最佳占卜效果，以下是一些可以幫助你提升占卜技巧的解讀要點(diǎn)。
我建議你只從你面前的問卜者（這也包括電話溝通或郵件溝通的問卜者）的角度去做解讀。
請(qǐng)記住，你為之進(jìn)行解讀的任何人是你的客戶，你有責(zé)任盡最大努力解讀占卜結(jié)果，讓問卜者有能力去解決他/她自己的問題。即使你是一個(gè)只有十幾歲的孩子，并不依靠占卜結(jié)果收取費(fèi)用，但你的解讀過程也是具有一定影響力的。因此，你應(yīng)該避免對(duì)一個(gè)問題過于消極或過于積極的回答。有些塔羅牌幾乎總是正面的，而有些通常會(huì)比較難以解讀，但是親愛的塔羅師，你需要找到一個(gè)與客戶交談的中間地帶。
現(xiàn)在，你的任務(wù)是解決客戶的問題。如果有問了一個(gè)關(guān)于另一個(gè)人的問題，在道德上最好將這個(gè)問題改寫一下，將你面對(duì)的這個(gè)人作為問題的提問者。
例如，不要問“我的丈夫病了嗎？”而是問：“我需要為丈夫提供更多的照顧嗎？”，不要問“我要帶我女兒看醫(yī)生X嗎？”而是問：“我該怎么支持我的女兒接受最好的醫(yī)療護(hù)理？“你應(yīng)該在這里看到一種模式。
好的提問方式應(yīng)該是這樣的，比如：
“我怎樣才能在家里保持身體健康？
“我能做些什么來改善我家中的飲食習(xí)慣？”
“我如何幫助我的家人遠(yuǎn)離毒品和酒精問題？”
“我如何協(xié)助家庭成員尋求心理健康服務(wù)？”
這些問題可以為你帶來清晰的答案，而有時(shí)也會(huì)不太清楚。讓我們以心理健康服務(wù)的問題為例。（根據(jù)CDC的數(shù)據(jù)，每年有3-4成人的心理健康問題是一個(gè)嚴(yán)重的問題，見https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/index.htm。在美國(guó)，每年大約有1 / 5的成年人患有精神疾病，這一數(shù)字為每年4180萬，或18.5%。而大約每25個(gè)成年人中就有1人患有嚴(yán)重的精神疾病，在美國(guó)980萬人中，或4%的人在某一年經(jīng)歷了嚴(yán)重的精神疾病，嚴(yán)重干擾或限制了一個(gè)或多個(gè)主要的生活活動(dòng)。見https://www.nami.org/learn-morm/mental-by-numberssthash.oi91avm4.dpuf。)
這里有一個(gè)問題“我如何幫助我的孩子尋求青少年心理健康咨詢？”我們假設(shè)你選擇了單張塔羅的解讀。以下是一些相關(guān)的卡牌以及簡(jiǎn)短的解讀。
權(quán)杖王牌 - 鼓勵(lì)你的孩子參與日常的體育活動(dòng)。
權(quán)杖五 - 可以斷定你需要堅(jiān)持要求孩子進(jìn)行治療。
倒吊人 - 不需要做什么，任何你需要的都會(huì)由他人為你帶來。
寶劍國(guó)王 - 你會(huì)獲得成熟的醫(yī)療或精神健康從業(yè)者的援助。
當(dāng)我們問到關(guān)于身體健康的問題時(shí)，你抽出了寶劍三。這張牌牌面上畫著一顆心上面有三把寶劍，這張牌經(jīng)常與心臟手術(shù)或心臟病有關(guān)。經(jīng)常與心臟手術(shù)或心臟問題有關(guān)。如果作為占卜師而不是一個(gè)合格的醫(yī)療從業(yè)者，你需要在沒有“提供醫(yī)療建議”的情況下說一些有用的東西，這是違反法律的。
你可能需要這樣解讀：“這張牌表明你需要咨詢你的醫(yī)生關(guān)于心臟問題。你愿意在不久的將來做這件事嗎？“換句話說，你需要把這個(gè)人送到正確的專家那里，而不是嚇倒他們。另外，這張牌也與心臟的情緒問題有關(guān)，有些時(shí)候也會(huì)造成錯(cuò)誤的解讀。
對(duì)于任何健康問題，你都可以采用類似的方法進(jìn)行解讀。記得要對(duì)于你所抽出的塔羅牌做個(gè)更加廣泛的思考，想一下它們?nèi)绾芜m用于你的問題。愿這對(duì)于你在解決客戶問題方面有很大的幫助。
這個(gè)月有很多工作要做。我希望你的健康占卜也能得到良好的占卜結(jié)果。在未來，我們將看看剩下的問題:尋找真愛。
Health matters are one of the big three questions most readers get from their clients, friends, and even themselves. But for best results, here are some factors that will improve your readings.
Let’s start with some ethical issues. I recommend that you only do readings from the perspective of the person in front of you (or on the phone, or who has written you).
Remember that anyone you read for is your client, for whom you have a responsibility to do your best reading and to leave that person empowered to solve his or her problems. Even if you are a teenager and not charging for your readings, your words have power. Thus it behooves you to avoid either a too negative or a too positive answer to a question. Some cards are almost always positive, some usually more difficult, but you, dear reader, need to find a middle ground from which to speak to your client.
Now, your task is to solve the client’s problem. If someone asks a question for another it is ethically best to rephrase the question as one that puts the client as the questioner. For example, instead of asking “Is my husband seriously ill?” ask “Will I need to provide more care for my husband?” Instead of asking “Should I take my daughter to see Doctor X?” ask, “How can I support my daughter in receiving the best medical care?” You should see a pattern here. Good questions are ones like these:
“How can I support good health in my family?”
“What can I do to improve the diet of my family?”
“How can I steer my family away from problems with drugs and alcohol?”
“How can I assist a family member in seeking mental health services?”
These questions can give you clear answers, or sometimes less clear ones. Let’s use the mental health services question as an example. (Mental health issues are a serious problem for 3-4% of adults in any given year according to the CDC, see https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/index.htm. Approximately 1 in 5 adults in the U.S.—43.8 million, or 18.5%—experiences mental illness in a given year. Approximately 1 in 25 adults in the U.S.—9.8 million, or 4.0%—experiences a serious mental illness in a given year that substantially interferes with or limits one or more major life activities. - See more at https://www.nami.org/Learn-More/Mental-Health-By-the-Numbers#sthash.Oi91AVM4.dpuf.)
The question is “How can I help my teenager seek mental health counseling?” Let’s assume that you draw a single card for the reading. Here are some possible cards and accompanying short answers.
The Ace of Wands—encourage your child’s physical activities and participation in life.
The Five of Wands—be insistent (assertive, even argumentative) about requiring the child to engage in treatment.
The Hanging Man—do nothing, as whatever is needed will come from another.
The King of Swords—enlist the aid of a mature medical or mental health practitioner.
Let’s say that the question is about physical health, and you draw the Three of Swords. This card, with three swords piercing a heart in most decks, is frequently associated with heart surgery or heart problems. Unless you are a qualified medical practitioner, you need to say something useful without “giving medical advice” which is against the law. You might say something like, “This card suggests that you need to consult your physician about heart issues. Are you willing to do that in the near future?” In other words, you want to send the person to the correct specialist, yet not scare them. That particular card is also associated with emotional problems of the heart, and you could be mistaking one for the other.
You can follow a similar methodology for any health question. Remember to look widely at the card or cards you draw to see how they apply to your question. May you be highly useful in solving your clients’ problems.
This is plenty to work with for this month. I wish you caution as well as good results with your health readings. In the future, we will look at the remaining of the most asked questions: Finding Love.
By Lalia Wilson
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